Is it my fault these things happened?

As much as you feel they blame you looking at that another way you blame them dwelling on it is what's causing your problems today.It doesn't matter who was to blame families squabble sometimes it doesn't have anything to do with what they are arguing about even.If one person is having a bad day already then they can yell and shout for no reason or for a silly little reason.All these things are in the past if you dwell on them and keep bringing them up today they will effect how you feel today and how life goes for you today.Picking at a sore doesn't get it to heal.