WTF!!! how is it different?

Ok..I have shoulder lengh healthy hair..coco color skin...dark brown eyes...nice body(big hips..small waist)..no bumps on my face...dress sexi and professional (not like a slut).....and always get asked to be a model...now my friend (ex-friend at the moment) has a nice body..dress sexi (sluty but not too sluty)...is a pretty dark skin but has aot of bumps on her face and wears weave all the time...ok when we go ou some where guys alwas go to her...and im like why?? I mean im not jealous over her (i put that on my grandmothers grave) but it just makes me wounder why dudes always go to her??? Is it because of the difference in how we carry ourself?